Weekly Relationship Oracle ✦ Nov 2 – 8, 2025
Discover what this week’s Intuitive Whispers oracle spread reveals about your relationship dynamics.
Welcome (back) to this week’s relationship dynamics oracle spread!
Firstly, an apology to my dear subscribers who look forward to this Sunday ritual oracle reading - my Sunday unfortunately got overrun by my own relationship dynamics, so to speak.
But alas, here I am on Monday morning, a little late, but still here with all the relationship tea.
How oracle cards work
The cards you are drawn to match the energetic frequency of the current situation you’re in or the trajectory you’re on.
This reading can be used both for romantic and platonic relationships.
If you want to dive deeper on how it all works, I’ve written a post explaining just that:
About this week’s deck
This week’s spread was done with the Intuitive Whispers Oracle deck by Maude Hirst. It’s one of my newest additions and I must say, this deck is just phenomenal. ot has really surprised me with the the kinds of messages the deck holds. This is a great deck for anyone from beginners to pros.
The illustrations are so stunning and feel almost etherial. So happy with this bookstore find. It’s quite a special experience for me when I’m pulled go into a bookstore I'm passing.. naturally heading straight to the esoteric shelf where they keep the oracle cards. I like to believe that the deck was summoning a new owner for itself.. and that our energies resonated as I was passing through.. grabbing my attention and drawing me to it.
How to pick your oracle cards
Step 1
Decide who this reading is about: YOU + THEM
Step 2
Pick a card set, 1, 2, 3 or 4.
Don’t overthink it. Whatever came to mind first, that’s it. There’s no wrong choice.
Step 3
Scroll down till you hit your number + read your message
For those who want to take this reading a little deeper, let’s set the reading’s intention together. Place your hands over your heart chakra and read this aloud or to yourself:
“Let the message that is for my highest-good come through.”
This week’s relationship oracle card spread revealed
This week’s spread has a lot of parallels, a theme of introspection runs through every single set. For most, it is a calmer, reflective week. For a few, though, it might bring a few unexpected bumps, especially if there is resistance to looking inward.
Maybe someone is just not ready to accept what is, and that is okay. Everyone has their own path and timing. Sometimes, the kindest thing you can do is let that be.
A note before we dive in
Be sure to take a moment simply to look at the image on your card before reading my interpretation. Feel what it stirs in you.. what grabs your attention first? Is it the colours or any specific details? Examine why? These make great journal prompts.
1. IF YOU CHOSE SET ONE
Your Card: 13 - Become Your Own Priority
This week, you need to focus a little more on yourself. There has been a lot of energy going outward, toward them.. what they are feeling, what they need, how you can support or fix things. Maybe they are not even asking for that. Maybe you are doing it automatically.. because you think you’re supposed to.
If you’re being asked for help, that’s one thing. But if you are doing it of your own accord, then that is something to reflect on within yourself. What part of you believes you have to perform or prove your worth to earn love or approval?
Maybe they don’t even want the focus on them right now. Maybe they cannot even accept it right now. So who are you really doing it for?
This week is about re-routing that focus back onto yourself. If guilt creeps in around that.. guilt about taking time for yourself or doing what you need, just notice it and let it pass. You don’t need permission to take care of yourself. You matter too, simply because you exist. Treat yourself the way you would want them to treat you.
Their Card: 16 - Release Old Patterns
This week, they are in a place of realisation. They might be starting to notice that some of their behaviours are more autopilot than choice, reactions formed long ago that no longer fit who they are becoming. And now they are seeing that, maybe for the first time.
It’s not easy energy this week for them. It can feel confronting to realise you have been repeating something that has hurt yourself or others. They might need space or time alone as they unpack this. And that is probably exactly why your card this week was Become Your Own Priority, because they are working through something only they can fix.
You cannot save them from this. You cannot walk this part for them. What you can do is stay grounded in your own lane and trust that whatever needs releasing, they will handle it in their own way and time. If they can let go of those patterns, this week could end in relief and renewal. If not, it might set up some lessons for the weeks ahead, but either way, it is growth.
The Dynamic Between You
This week is deeply individual for both of you. You are being asked to look inward and tend to your own energy, while they are being asked to release old patterns that no longer serve them. You cannot take on their burdens, and they cannot heal yours.
If you both do your part, the dynamic between you may begin to feel lighter, less tangled, and more authentic.
Takeaway: This is a week of self-focus and individual clearing. Give space, allow growth, and trust that everything is unfolding exactly as it needs to.
2. IF YOU CHOSE SET TWO
Your Card: 19 - Move Your Body to Move Your Emotion
Sometimes it is hard to let ourselves feel all the things. We overthink, analyse, or try to make sense of emotions before we even let them move through us. This week, the message is simple. Get out of your head and into your body.
Go for a walk, take a class, dance in your kitchen, stretch, swim, do whatever gets you moving. This is not about ignoring what is happening, but processing it differently. Movement helps release what the mind holds on to. It moves the stuck energy.
When you move, your mind also starts to find its own rhythm again. You will find clarity creeping in where there was confusion.
Their Card: 30 - You Are Brilliant
This week, they are glowing. The You Are Brilliant card is full of self-expression, confidence and renewed belief. Maybe something in their life is finally clicking, a new project, a win at work, or just a general feeling of inspiration.
And yes, it could also be that they are hyping themselves up, giving themselves those little pep talks to get there. Either way, they are tapping into that part of themselves that wants to shine.
They might crave a bit of attention or acknowledgement this week, and that is okay. Let them have their moment. Their confidence is not a threat to yours. Sometimes someone else’s light just reminds us of our own.
The Dynamic Between You
While you are moving through your emotions, they are stepping into self-belief. You might be more inward this week, while they are more outward. Instead of clashing, let that difference balance things.
This is not the week to overthink or compare paths. It is a week to support each other’s process.
Takeaway: This is a week of release and confidence. Let them shine while you move what needs moving. You are both doing the work, just in different ways.
3. IF YOU CHOSE SET THREE
Your Card: 11 - Crown Chakra Activation
The Crown Chakra Activation card is about clarity and connection with yourself, with life, and with the bigger picture. This week, your intuition is strong, your insights are sharp and you might find realisations landing out of nowhere.
Give yourself time to sit with those thoughts. Journal, meditate, walk in nature, whatever helps the wisdom land.
From a numerology perspective, 11 is a Master Number that represents insight, awareness, and the ability to bridge the physical and the spiritual. It is the number of higher understanding, of suddenly seeing things clearly after a long time of fog.
This is not a week for action; it is a week for awareness. Let the understanding come in. You do not need to do anything yet.
Their Card: 36 - One Next Step
For them, the message this week is about simplicity. The One Next Step card is a reminder that they do not need the whole plan to be in place. They just need the courage to take the next small step.
They might be feeling daunted or uncertain.. or like there is too much ahead to handle. But this card is saying, just keep going. Do not freeze, do not overthink, do not run ahead in your mind. One step at a time is enough.
In a relationship context, this means they might not know where things are going yet. They are not avoiding you, but they are trying to stay steady in their process. This week you can support them without pushing for clarity they do not have yet.
The Dynamic Between You
You are the intuitive one this week, sensing what is happening beneath the surface, while they are the one learning through action. You hold the bigger picture, they hold the next move. Together, this can bring real balance.
Takeaway: Insight meets action. Trust your awareness, and let them move at their own pace.
4. IF YOU CHOSE SET FOUR
Your Card: 18 - Emotions Are Energy in Motion
You are processing a lot this week.. maybe through tears, laughter, or creative expression. The Emotions Are Energy in Motion card is all about release. It is about letting the emotion move through you rather than build up.
Whatever comes up, do not block it. Feel it, express it, and let it flow. That is how clearing happens. And sometimes this can be a painful process.. other times a joyful and freeing one.
You might also notice this week that certain feelings come back around, old emotions you thought you had already dealt with, resurfacing for a final release. That is okay. It doesn’t mean you are backsliding. It means your body and energy field are ready to clear the deeper layers. Let it happen. You are lighter on the other side.
There is also a message here about creative transmutation. When you let emotion flow into writing, art, movement, or sound.. it transforms. Energy moves, becomes something new, and that is where your healing deepens.
Their Card: 22 - Your Mind, Your Body, Your Soul
This is a big one for them. The Your Mind, Your Body, Your Soul card is about full-spectrum clearing, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. They are recalibrating, possibly having major realisations that change how they see themselves or their life.
Numerologically, 22 is the Master Builder number. It is about creating a new structure after transformation. They are not just changing; they are rebuilding.
For them, this week can bring awareness around balance. Maybe they have been too focused on one aspect of life.. their thoughts, their work, their body, or their routines.. and neglecting the others. This card shows a need for alignment across all parts of self this week.
It can be an intense energy to live through, so they might seem distracted, restless, or even emotionally raw this week. Give them space to process without taking it personally. They are aligning on a deep level.
The Dynamic Between You
Something very spevila happened with this set of cards - they feel out together while i was shuffling, landing in their respecrive positions in the spread. The rest of the cards were chosen by hand with the cards fanned out.. but this last set.. they just came out flying as soon as I started shuffling. This show something significant.
Both of you are clearing and this time, it feels shared. It is not one of you doing the work alone. You are in sync, facing your own parts but moving together. There may still be resistance, maybe even tension, but you are working towards the same goal.
Takeaway: This week is about shared growth and mutual clearing. It is not easy, but it is necessary, and it is leading somewhere good.
What resonated with you this week?
I’d love to hear all about it in the comments! And remember, your reflections may be exactly what someone else needs to hear!
(You’re also always welcome to DM me with any private insights or questions.)
Whatever cards you chose, don’t forget that they don’t predict the future. They simply reflect back the themes currently at play so you can make more conscious choices. Relationships are alive and shifting, just like we are.. and the energy between two people will always evolve week by week.
See you next Sunday!
Next week I have an absolute treat in store for you guys with a FRIENDS themed oracle deck - it’s going to be a fun and nostalgic reading - I can’t wait to share it with you!
See you here next Sunday!
May you move with grace, stay open to connection and trust the wisdom that’s already inside you.
Much love, Tania
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Thank you for this! This was much needed!