Weekly Relationship Oracle ✦ Oct 19 – 25, 2025
Discover what this week’s Sea Soul Journey oracle card spread reveals about your relationship dynamics.
Welcome (back) to this week’s relationship dynamics oracle spread!
I’m Tania.. every Sunday I share a new Relationship Dynamics oracle spread to help you tune into the energies shaping your connection with the person on your mind (romantic or otherwise).
How oracle cards work
The cards you are drawn to match the energetic frequency of the current situation you’re in or the trajectory you’re on.
If you want to dive deeper on how it all works, I’ve written a post explaining just that:
About this week’s deck
For this week’s reading, I’ve chosen the Sea Soul Journey oracle cards by
. This is my newest addition. It was my birthday present to myself this past September.I first discovered this deck online about two years ago and immediately fell in love with the imagery. As someone who’s lived near the coast most of my life (in South Africa and Spain), those visuals feel almost homely.
I didn’t buy the deck at the time, as I had already gone way overboard on too many new decks at the time. So I had to be firm with myself and first get familiar with the decks I already had. The fact that I was still so excited about the deck even two years on is testament to how drawn I felt to it. It’s been so fun using it.
The cards in this deck are longer, more like tarot dimensions rather than the wider standard oracle size. Sometimes creators choose a shape intentionally for their aesthetic or feeling, while other times printing or publisher constraints lead to that format. I’m usually not a fan when deck creators deviate from the traditional dimensions.. but I gotta say, I don’t hate it here. The cards are just so captivating.
How to pick your oracle cards for this reading
Step 1
Decide who this reading is about: YOU + THEM
Step 2
Pick a card set, 1, 2, 3 or 4.
(Don’t overthink it. Whatever came to mind first, that’s it. There’s no wrong choice)
Step 3
Scroll down till you hit your number + read your message
For those who want to take this reading a little deeper, let’s set the reading’s intention together. Place your hands over your heart chakra and read this aloud or to yourself:
“Let the message that is for my highest-good come through.”
This week’s relationship oracle card spread revealed
A note before we dive in
All of the cards in this deck fall into one of four major themes:
Letting Go: releasing what no longer serves so clarity and renewal can enter
Gratitude & Awe: cultivating awareness of life’s gifts, even the small ones
Moving Forward: aligning with purpose and taking steps that match your truth
Self-Compassion: meeting your own struggles with kindness instead of judgment
1. IF YOU CHOSE SET ONE
Your Card: Expansive (Self-Compassion)
This week is about self-compassion through expansion. Self-compassion means being kind to yourself when things don’t go perfectly. When you react in ways you wish you hadn’t or when you’re just tired of holding it all together. It’s the opposite of self-criticism. When you show yourself grace instead of judgment, something opens up inside you. You start to breathe again. You make room for new awareness, new understanding and even new love to come in.
In a relationship dynamic, this can look like catching yourself before spiralling into guilt or self-blame. Maybe you’ve been overanalysing a conversation, worrying about how you came across, or wondering if you’ve said too much. This week, try to go easier on yourself. You don’t have to shrink to keep the peace. When you forgive yourself and stay kind in the moment, it shifts the energy.. and suddenly there’s less tension and more space for understanding to grow.
Their Card: Faith (Letting Go)
Their theme this week is letting go through faith. The Faith card means choosing to trust even when the outcome isn’t clear. They might be in a space of uncertainty, trying to make peace with what they can’t control. Fear and doubt could be getting the best of them and yet, deep down they know that holding tighter isn’t helping. This is a week where they need to steady themselves through trust in timing, and maybe even through trust in you.
In a relationship dynamic, they might seem quieter or emotionally withdrawn, not because they don’t care but because they’re processing. They could be testing whether it’s safe to let go a little and not manage every detail or outcome. If they’ve been anxious or reactive, this is their moment to exhale. They’re learning to trust that what’s meant for them won’t slip away just because they stop trying so hard to control it.
The Dynamic Between You
Together, these cards speak to the balance between giving yourself grace and giving life a chance to unfold. You’re learning to be kind to yourself while they’re learning to trust the process. Both of you are being stretched in different but complementary ways.. you through inner expansion, them through release. It might feel like you’re moving at different speeds this week, but you’re both working toward the same thing: peace.
Takeaway: This week is about dropping the pressure. Go easy on yourself, trust the process, and remember.. connection grows best when both people have room to breathe.
2. IF YOU CHOSE SET TWO
Your Card: Resilient (Self-Compassion)
This week is about self-compassion through resilience. When you have self-compassion, you don’t ignore pain or pretend you’re fine.. rather you acknowledge what’s hard and meet it with kindness instead of self-criticism. Life might be testing you a little right now. You may feel worn down or emotionally stretched, but this card reminds you that resilience is allowing yourself to trust that even when you’re under pressure, you’re still growing stronger.
In a relationship dynamic, this can show up as being patient with yourself when communication feels off or when emotions flare. Instead of shutting down or pushing too hard, try to notice what the moment is asking for. Maybe you just need to pause and breathe before reacting. This is your reminder that it’s okay to need space to process. Resilience is about staying grounded in who you are, even in the middle of tension.. rather than keeping the peace at all costs.
Their Card: Depth (Gratitude & Awe)
Their theme this week is depth through gratitude. They may be craving more meaning, more truth or more emotional honesty.. both with themselves and with others. This is a time when they’re being drawn inward to explore what really matters to them. Surface-level answers won’t cut it anymore. They want to feel connected, not just comfortable.
In a relationship dynamic, this can look like them wanting deeper conversations or more emotional presence.. but maybe not always knowing how to ask for it. They might be a little quieter or more reflective, but that doesn’t mean they’re pulling away. It’s more likely that they’re trying to understand their own feelings before expressing them. When you give them space to go inward without interpreting it as distance, it creates room for greater closeness later.
The Dynamic Between You
Together, the Resilient card and the Depth card show a connection that’s stabilising and evolving at the same time. You are learning to stay steady under emotional pressure, while they are learning to go beyond the surface and connect more deeply. The balance between the two creates growth. One person holds, the other explores. If you can both stay honest and patient through this phase, the relationship has the potential to feel stronger and more emotionally real than before.
Takeaway: This week is about emotional endurance and honesty. Stay steady, stay curious, and let the connection deepen in its own time.
3. IF YOU CHOSE SET THREE
Your Card: Receive (Gratitude & Awe)
This week is about gratitude expressed through receiving. The Receive card is a reminder that worthiness doesn’t have to be proven. It’s something you remember and live from. The focus now is on allowing good things to reach you without shrinking, over-explaining, or brushing them off. Let life show you that you’re already enough to receive what’s kind and nourishing.
In a relationship dynamic, this might look like truly taking in your partner’s care or affection without the need to balance the scales. Let it land. Let it feel good. Sometimes allowing love to reach you.. without guilt or resistance.. is the most powerful act of gratitude there is.
Their Card: Decide (Moving Forward)
Their energy this week centres on clarity through action. Decide speaks to that moment when thinking gives way to movement. When something inside says, “enough waiting”. They may be aligning their choices with what now feels true, stepping out of uncertainty and into direction. It’s a quiet but determined shift toward purpose.
In a relationship dynamic, this could show up as them wanting to define where things stand, take initiative or clarify the limits of what they can give. They might need space to gather their thoughts before sharing them.. not because they’re withdrawing, but because they want to be sure their next move comes from choice, not pressure.
The Dynamic Between You
Together, Receive and Decide highlight a flow between openness and momentum. You are learning to accept what’s given, while they are learning to act from conviction. It’s a week of some realignment.. fewer mixed signals, more honesty about what feels right. Trust that your openness makes space for their clarity and their clarity, in turn, creates stability for you both.
Takeaway: This week is about letting truth and timing work together. Be open. Be patient. What’s meant for you doesn’t need convincing.
4. IF YOU CHOSE SET FOUR
Your Card: Clear (Letting Go)
This week is about clarity through release. The Clear card reminds you that seeing things as they are requires honesty about your own feelings and expectations. When we feel emotional, it’s easy to lose perspective. This card asks you to slow down, breathe and let the dust settle so the truth can rise to the surface. The clearer you are, the freer you become to make aligned choices.
In a relationship dynamic, this may show up as finally recognising what’s real.. not what you wish were true.. but what’s actually happening. Don’t interpret that as detachment though.. rather it means awareness. When you stop trying to manage every outcome, you create space for what’s meant to stay and release what’s weighing you down.
Their Card: Begin (Moving Forward)
Their energy this week carries a sense of renewal. The Begin card is the card of movement after stillness.. that first deep breath before taking a step. They may be finding courage to start again or to act on something they’ve been thinking about for a long time. Even if fear or hesitation lingers, their momentum is building. The act of beginning is already underway.
In a relationship dynamic, this might look like them reaching out more intentionally, opening up emotionally, or re-engaging after a quiet phase. They’re learning that progress doesn’t have to be perfect.. but that they just have to keep putting one foot ahead of the other and keep going. Their willingness to start again signals growth and hope.
The Dynamic Between You
Together, Clear and Begin create a bridge this week between truth and movement. You are learning to see things plainly, while they are ready to act on that truth. It’s a powerful pairing for forward motion.. but only if clarity is met with honesty, not control.
This week’s energy supports fresh starts rooted in awareness. Let go of what’s been clouding the view and trust that what’s next will come with its own momentum.
Takeaway: This week is about new beginnings born from truth. When you see clearly, you know where to step and when they move with intention, life meets them halfway.
What resonated with you this week?
I’d love to hear all about it in the comments! And remember, your reflections may be exactly what someone else needs to hear!
(You’re also always welcome to DM me with any private insights or questions.)
Whatever cards you chose, don’t forget that they don’t predict the future. They simply reflect back the themes currently at play so you can make more conscious choices. Relationships are alive and shifting, just like we are.. and the energy between two people will always evolve week by week.
See you next Sunday!
Next week’s Relationship Dynamics oracle card pull will be using Sacred Geometry Activations oracle deck by LON.
May you move with grace, stay open to connection and trust the wisdom that’s already inside you.
Much love, Tania
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