Weekly Relationship Oracle ✦ Sept 28 – Oct 3, 2025
Discover what this week’s Raise Your Vibes Crystal Cards reveal about your relationship dynamics.
Welcome (back) to this week’s relationship dynamics oracle spread!
I’m Tania, and every Sunday, I share a new Relationship Dynamics oracle spread to help you tune into the energies shaping your connection with the person on your mind (romantic or otherwise).
How oracle cards work
The cards you are drawn to match an energetic frequency that’s already present in your life, but maybe unconscious. By drawing it, you’re being nudged by your own subconscious (or higher-self, if you will) to make it conscious and embodied.
If you want to dive deeper on how it all works, I’ve written a post explaining just that:
About this week’s deck
For this week’s reading, I’ve chosen the Raise Your Vibes Crystal Cards by Athena Bahri.
When I came across this deck, I was drawn to it for two reasons. The first is that at the time I was in the middle of an all consuming fascination with crystals and the way so many people swear by their healing power. The second reason is because of the vibrant green colour of the deck, that immediately caught my glaze when I was browning the esoteric / new age section at my local bookstore. Together it felt like a sign to add the deck to my collection.
Since then, it’s become one of my favourite newer decks and the one I often use for personal readings. What makes it special is how layered it is. Each card represents a crystal, but also links to one of the chakras, carries a number (which gives it a subtle numerology aspect), and includes a keyword or phrase. That combination means the deck is brimming with depth.. you can find multiple threads of meaning reflecting back at you with every pull.
For me, this deck has also been a wonderful way to learn more about the wide world of crystals themselves. Every spread feels like both a reading and a mini lesson, which is awesome.
How to pick your oracle cards
This oracle spread is all about the energetic dynamic between you and someone else.
It could be.. someone you’re dating, married to, or even a crush.. your boss or your mom.. your friend or your child. Anyone who you actually know.
Step 1
Decide who this reading is about: YOU + THEM
Step 2
Pick a card set, 1, 2, 3 or 4.
Don’t overthink it. Whatever came to mind first, that’s it. There’s no wrong choice.
Step 3
Scroll down till you hit your number + read your message
For those who want to take this reading a little deeper, let’s set the reading’s intention together. Place your hands over your heart chakra and read this aloud or to yourself:
“Let the message that is for my highest-good come through.”
This week’s relationship oracle card spread revealed
After last week’s rather tumultuous spread, it’s a bit of a relief to see a more calm week ahead for everyone. phew.
A note before we dive in
When you look at your chosen card set below, I encourage you to take a moment before reading my interpretation. Look at the card images and notice what draws your attention. Is it the colours, or a specific detail? What feelings or thoughts arise as you take it in? What thoughts do the words or phrases on the cards trigger for you? What is the physical feeling
Your own impressions are part of the message, my words simply help guide you deeper.
A simple journal prompt:
What about the imagery in this card stands out to me and how is that theme showing up in my life right now?
1. IF YOU CHOSE SET ONE
Your Card: 42 - Blue Kyanite - Dreams (Third Eye Chakra)
Blue Kyanite is known as a stone of clarity and higher connection. It’s often described as a bridge between dimensions, helping us align with our higher self and clear away energetic blockages. This crystal supports lucid dreaming, intuition, and psychic awareness, making it easier to see situations from a higher perspective instead of through the fog of confusion or fear. Its deep blue tones carry the vibration of calm truth, encouraging honesty with yourself and with others.
Linked here to the Third Eye Chakra, Blue Kyanite is all about inner vision. The Third Eye governs intuition, imagination, and perception, and it helps us see beyond the surface. When this chakra is active and balanced, you feel tuned in to what’s real beneath appearances. This week, you may notice insights rising up in dreams or subtle gut feelings guiding you. The card reminds you to trust that inner sight, especially in moments where things feel uncertain.
The word “Dreams” speaks to both the unconscious world at night and the bigger visions you hold for your life and relationships. For you, this card suggests that the week ahead could bring intuitive nudges, flashes of clarity, or realizations through symbolic or subtle channels. It’s asking you not to dismiss them. In relationships, this may show up as an urge to look deeper, to see beyond words into intentions, and to sense what’s truly unfolding between you and another. This week, you’re encouraged to listen to your higher guidance and allow it to shape how you show up.
Their Card: 8 - Ruby - Affirmation Crystal
The ruby is one of the most vibrant and life-affirming stones, carrying the energy of passion, vitality, and courage. It’s long been considered a stone of the heart, fuelling not only romantic love but also the inner fire that pushes us to live fully. Ruby invites growth by honouring the past, mistakes, lessons, and victories alike, and transforming them into fuel for who we are becoming. It calls for resilience, boldness, and the courage to embrace life as it is.
As an Affirmation Crystal, Ruby connects to the power of spoken intention and self-belief. The affirmation here is: “I honour the person I was so I may grow into who I know I am meant to be.” This speaks of integration, acknowledging one’s past, flaws and all, instead of running from it. For them, this week may be about facing their own history with compassion, letting go of regrets, and using what they’ve been through as strength rather than baggage.
In a relationship context, Ruby energy suggests they may be working through something personal this week, reflecting on who they’ve been, what they’ve learned, and how to carry those lessons forward. That can sometimes look like withdrawal, or it may appear as them revisiting old wounds or memories. But at its core, Ruby pushes them toward self-acceptance and growth, which can only strengthen how they show up with you.
The Dynamic Between You
Together, these two cards create an interesting interplay of vision and integration. You are being invited to look forward and upward, to lean into dreams, intuition, and possibilities, while they are being asked to look backward with compassion, acknowledging where they’ve come from. It’s a dynamic of future and past meeting in the present. You may be eager to move ahead, guided by insight and clarity, while they may need a little more time to process, heal, and honour their journey.
This week, the balance lies in patience and perspective. For you, the challenge is not to rush ahead without considering their process. For them, the challenge is not to get stuck in the past and to recognise that honouring it is just a step toward growth, not a reason to stay behind. When these energies meet in harmony, you create a bridge: your vision lighting the way ahead, and their grounded self-acceptance stabilising the path.
Takeaway: This week calls for balance between vision and integration. Trust your insights, but honour their process. Together, the future becomes clearer when both past and possibility are embraced.
2. IF YOU CHOSE SET TWO
Your Card: 35 - Chrysocolla - Balance (Throat Chakra)
Chrysocolla is a soothing stone connected to the energy of water, often used to restore calm and to support healing. It helps us know when to speak, when to listen and how to release stress. This crystal encourages harmony not only in relationships, but also within the body, reminding us that imbalance in one area often echoes into others.
Linked to the throat chakra, Chrysocolla strengthens communication, honesty, and the ability to connect with both heart and mind. Its energy bridges physical and emotional well-being, encouraging you to align what you say with what you feel. This week, that balance will be key, as it allows you to create space for healthier conversations and deeper connection.
With “Balance”, this card suggests that this week you are being asked to restore equilibrium in your life and in your relationships. If you’ve been pulled too far in one direction, now is the time to come back to center. Balance doesn’t mean perfection, but rather creating flow between giving and receiving, speaking and listening. For you, this week may highlight the importance of holding steady and making adjustments that allow connection to feel smooth and authentic.
Their Card: 49 - Desert Rose - Self-worth (Crown Chakra)
Desert Rose is a powerful stone for dissolving illusions of limitation and for reminding us of our inherent value. It carries a grounding yet uplifting energy that encourages one to see themselves as worthy of love and belonging. Desert Rose is often used to clear away self-doubt, bringing clarity about one’s place in the bigger picture.
Connected to the crown chakra, this crystal helps one view life from a higher perspective. It encourages the release of negative self-talk and allows love to flow more freely into thought patterns. For them, this means they may be wrestling with feelings of inadequacy or struggling to see their contributions clearly this week, but the lesson is to realign with the truth of their worth.
“Self-Worth” signals that this week they are being asked to reclaim their value and remember how much they matter. They may be feeling sensitive or questioning themselves, but the invitation is to reflect on the good they bring into relationships and the world. For them, it is a week to lean into healing and self-recognition, instead of waiting for validation from others.
The Dynamic Between You
Together, Chrysocolla and Desert Rose bring a dynamic of balance meeting self-worth. You are being guided to create harmony and stability, while they are being called to heal doubts and reclaim their value. This can create a beautiful exchange, where your steadying influence helps them feel safe to remember who they are. While their growing sense of worth invites you to stay balanced in your role.
The lesson here is that true balance in relationships cannot exist unless both sides feel worthy and valued. This week asks you to hold the line with grounded balance, while also giving them space to reconnect with their self-worth. By honouring both needs, you create conditions where connection feels nourishing rather than draining.
Takeaway: This week is about balance and worth. Your role is to stay steady and centered, while theirs is to remember their value. Together, this creates the possibility for harmony and deeper mutual respect.
3. IF YOU CHOSE SET THREE
Your Card: 18 - Imperial Topaz - Boundaries (Sacral Chakra)
Imperial Topaz, often called Golden Topaz, carries a bright and clarifying energy. It is known for helping you stand firm in your truth, amplifying joy and aligning your personal desires with your higher purpose. This crystal is a reminder that limits are not restrictions but guides that help you move toward what genuinely fulfils you.
Linked to the sacral chakra, Imperial Topaz works with the center of emotions, creativity, and how we bond with others. When balanced, this chakra allows us to share intimacy without losing ourselves. When unbalanced, we may find ourselves saying yes when we mean no, or giving away more than feels safe. This week, Imperial Topaz asks you to protect your sacral energy by choosing where to give and where to hold steady.
With “Boundaries”, this card highlights the importance of clean, simple limits in your relationships. Saying no without apology or excuse becomes an act of self-care. This week, you are being asked to step back from overextension and to make space for joy. Boundaries are what keep love healthy and sustainable, and they will help you keep resentment at bay.
Their Card: 25 - Tiger’s Eye - Self-respect (Solar Plexus Chakra)
Tiger’s Eye is a stone of strength, grounding and courage. Its golden bands carry the stabilising energy of earth combined with the sharp clarity of light. This crystal helps a person discern what is real, stand with confidence and act with calm determination even under pressure.
Connected to the solar plexus chakra, Tiger’s Eye strengthens the seat of personal power and will. It encourages clear decisions, self-trust and follow-through. For them, this chakra is calling for steadiness this week, showing them how to hold their center without being swayed by external pressures or inner emotional storms.
With the word “Self-respect”, Tiger’s Eye reminds them to see their own needs as valid and to honour what is right for them. This may show up in keeping their promises to themselves, declining what feels misaligned or speaking directly rather than avoiding conflict. Self-respect is not about ego, it is the grounding that allows respect to flow between two people.
The Dynamic Between You
Together, Imperial Topaz and Tiger’s Eye bring the lesson of strong, steady foundations. You are being guided to honour boundaries that protect your energy, while they are being guided to stand tall in their own self-respect. This pairing creates a dynamic where both clarity and truth are valued, reducing resentment and building trust.
This week may highlight moments where old habits are tested, where you would normally over-give, or they might shrink back. Your role is to say no with kindness, while theirs is to treat themselves as worthy of being heard. If both of you answer this call, the dynamic becomes one of balance, honesty and healthier exchange.
Takeaway: Boundaries and self-respect go hand in hand. This week, each of you is being asked to hold your ground with clarity so the relationship can stand on steadier ground.
4. IF YOU CHOSE SET FOUR
Your Card: 48 - Moonstone - Growth (Crown Chakra)
Moonstone carries the pulse of lunar cycles. It is a soothing stone known for softening heightened emotions, encouraging reflection and helping us ride the ebb and flow of change. Its shimmer hints at things emerging from the dark into the light, which is why it is often worked with during transitions, tender phases and emotional resets.
As a Crown Chakra crystal, Moonstone lifts your perspective this week. It supports calm, receptivity and trust in timing so you can see your situation from a wider view rather than from momentary waves. Crown energy reminds you that phases are natural and that spacious awareness helps the heart settle.
With the word “Growth”, this card points to a real stretch point for you in relationships this week. Growth can ache a little before it feels good. You may be asked to let something mature in its own time, to respond rather than react, and to hold steady while your feelings evolve. Give yourself grace. What looks uncertain today may become clarity by week’s end if you allow the process to unfold.
Their Card: 26 - Amber - Trust (Solar Plexus Chakra)
Amber is ancient tree resin that has stored sunlight for ages. It is warming, cleansing, and confidence building. People reach for Amber when they want to draw fear out of the body, glow with vitality and let their inner wisdom move to the surface.
Linked to the Solar Plexus Chakra, Amber strengthens personal power and steadiness. For them, this week that translates to listening to their gut, standing in what feels true and letting self-belief guide their choices. Solar plexus energy helps them move from hesitation to presence.
With the keyword Trust, the focus for them is faith in themselves and in the path this connection is taking. They may need to release second guessing and lean into the simple next right step. Trust does not require perfect certainty. It asks for honest intention and consistent follow through.
The Dynamic Between You
Together, Moonstone and Amber create a tender meeting of growth and trust. You are in a developing phase that benefits from patience and emotional spaciousness. They are building courage and steadiness so they can show up with clarity. When these energies meet, the relationship can feel like new roots taking hold while the sun warms the soil.
This week, name the phase you are in and invite them into it. Share that you may need a little time or softness while you integrate what you are feeling. Encourage them to voice what their gut is saying and what support would help them follow through. Your calm growth plus their grounded trust can turn uncertainty into momentum.
If tension arises, it will likely come from mismatched pacing. Growth can make you slow down while trust can make them want to step forward quickly. Keep the rhythm by checking in on timing, setting small agreements, and celebrating each step. The more you honour the phase you are in, the easier it is for them to trust the journey with you.
Takeaway: You are growing, they are learning to trust. Keep the pace gentle, stay honest about timing and let patience meet confidence so this connection can strengthen.
What resonated with you this week?
I’d love to hear all about it in the comments! And remember, your reflections may be exactly what someone else needs to hear!
(You’re also always welcome to DM me with any private insights or questions.)
Whatever cards you chose, don’t forget that they don’t predict the future. They simply reflect back the themes currently at play so you can make more conscious choices. Relationships are alive and shifting, just like we are.. and the energy between two people will always evolve week by week.
See you next Sunday!
Next week’s Relationship Dynamics oracle card pull will be using Native Spirit orcale deck by Denise Linn
See you here next Sunday!
May you move with grace, stay open to connection and trust the wisdom that’s already inside you.
Much love, Tania
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Wow this is such a beautiful idea! I’m so glad I stumbled onto this page. I chose #4 and the synchronicities were crazy! Moonstone has been appearing to be all day. And I love the duality between moon / sun that this combo provides. Very illuminating and very accurate. I have been allowing for softness to gently guide me… and I know his confidence is building within me sharing and softening. So this is crazy awesome! Thank you! 🙏